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Bereavement

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We all have lost someone, something or  people we dearly love and adore.  This is surely not an easy path that one has to take,  you go through episodes that live you emotionally drained. At some point you feel angry with yourself for the things you believe you were supposed to have done for that person or rather for the fact that they have left you behind with all the pain that you're going through. At times you would find it hard to believe that this person has really passed on, which is something I'm going through. I recently buried my grand mother from my maternal side and it still feels a like a dream. She died at a tender age of 80 but for me it felt like she was going to be with us forever. People have died and she buried them so to me it felt like she was never going to die, I had hoped for her to live until she sees my second born, till I'm successful so I can be able to do the things I believed would have made her happy. It pains me that she had hoped for...
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Abortion

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Abortion!!!! This is a very sensitive issue to both men and women. Come to think of it this matter is not to be taken lightly. Often women are blamed and called names for doing such a cold blooded act, but the tricky part here is understanding what might have persuaded a woman to do such. Absent fathers Financial situation Family religious systems Society Depression etc I'm not saying I support this fatal act. It's very scares these days to see children being brought up by both parents. More and more women have to man up and take charge be the father and mother to their child..well some are too scared to raise their children on their own.  Infertile women or women who are struggling to have children find this hard to bare. There are options that one can consider giving your child up for adoption or taking contraceptives to prevent unwanted pregnancies. It's not only a woman's responsibilty but also of the men too.
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Choices and Life Choices we make determine our future. It's unfair that life makes some choices for you, being born in an disadvataged background is not a choice and we somehow have to live with the fact that we are less privilaged than others.  "They say. To be born in poverty is not your fault but to die poor is your fault". How do you make means to get out of poverty on an empty stomach?... it's easy for a person who is watching or evaluating your situation from a distance to say to you" keep trying it's gonna be alright"   Trueth of the matter is it's not easy for most people. Put yourself in someone elses shoes, understand and feel what they are experiencing.  Life might not mean the same thing to all of us, trust me we try but it's not easy.  Life is a game, only ones who know how to play it make it. Some cheat their way up. Some win fair and square..wich one are you? Think about it if we had the full right to choose no one would be...
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Hi all My name is Nomakhosi and I hope you will support my blog. I'm one person who's always observent and respects life.... I like writting and sharing my views with the world. Hope this will be a joyous journey,  jump on.
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